Personalized Caregiver consultation

Caring for someone who is seriously ill is not something most people are prepared for - even capable, thoughtful, responsible people.

You may be absorbing medical information, coordinating logistics, navigating family dynamics, and carrying decisions that feel heavy and consequential. That responsibility often lands primarily on one person.

I’m a former practicing palliative care physician with decades of experience working alongside families facing serious illness. I understand how these situations unfold, how the medical system works, and how complex the caregiver role can become. In this work, I am not acting as your doctor and I do not provide medical advice. What I offer is experienced perspective and structured guidance to help you think through what matters most.

I have also been a caregiver and faced the aging and loss of my beloved father. I get it.

I work privately with only a small number of clients, so our conversations can be personalized, deeply thoughtful, strategic, and tailored to your situation.

Our work may include:

• Clarifying priorities when everything feels urgent
• Knowing when to push your loved one into action and when to step back
• Thinking through complex decisions and next steps
• Preparing for important medical conversations
• Setting clear, workable boundaries
• Managing guilt, anger, and second-guessing
• Preparing for courageous conversations
• Managing challenging family dynamics
• Staying grounded in your values while caring deeply for your loved one

This is not therapy. It is not medical care. It is structured, high-level support from someone who understands the terrain of serious illness and caregiving.

If you’re ready to approach caregiving with expert guidance, so you can balance caring for your loved one with caring for yourself, I invite you to inquire about availability.

Sessions are held privately over Zoom and scheduled around caregiving responsibilities.

The Care Reset Program is for capable (but tired) people who don’t want to keep guessing their way through the maze of caregiving. 

You’re handling your loved one's physical decline, making high-stakes decisions, managing challenging family dynamics, and carrying a ton of responsibility. You want to do this well, but there isn't much room left to take care of yourself.

Care Reset gives you practical tools to think through difficult decisions, manage the mental load of caregiving, and care for your loved one with integrity - but without sacrificing yourself.

This isn't a support group.

It isn't toxic positivity.

And it isn't another course that tells you to "take care of yourself."

It's a practical framework for making caregiving more sustainable.

Inside the program, you’ll learn how to:

• Balance caring for your loved one with caring for yourself
• Ask better questions and advocate effectively in medical settings
• Manage guilt, anger, resentment, and grief without being ruled by them
• Set clear boundaries with family and clinicians
• Lower your stress in ways that work and fit your life
• Make decisions you can live with
• Avoid regret

If you want guidance that respects your intelligence, your time, and your love for the person you’re caring for, Care Reset was created for you.

The program includes:

• Recorded guidance for the situations that most caregivers face
• Tools and techniques to make caregiving easier
• Scripts to make challenging conversations easier
• Journal prompts to help you grow and find meaning in this tough experience
• Care Reset group Zoom calls so you can connect with others who get you and ask questions of Dr. Delia.

Care Reset isn't just a collection of caregiving tips. It's built around a framework I developed after caring for families for more than 30 years.

I call it The HEART Path.

Join the waitlist so I can let you know when enrollment opens.